Yall know I couldn’t mention that line and not think of Aaliyah right??!! Anyway, it’s been a whole 7 months since since we last talked. I know I know (shame on me) but although I’ve been kinda quiet on here, I’ve been active on my IG and YouTube.
Hopefully the announcement that I’m about to make will get me back in your graces. So here we go…now yall know usually I’m helping others on their events by vlogging and promoting, but this time I AM HOSTING MY VERY OWN!! It’s been a few years in the making, starting with being led by God to speak more boldly about my singleness and things I have learned while on this journey. First, healing had to take place and then I had to gain some courage and confidence in this season of singleness – especially in a world where the idea of waiting on the Lord to bless you in your love life is seen as a joke. But yall, I’m living that blessed life to the max and decided to gather some single men and women together so that we can chat and chew uhkay??!!
The date is set for Saturday, February 16, 2019 at the beautiful Tabula Rasa Art Gallery in Rahway, New Jersey. Tickets are available so be sure to snatch up one or two…and I hope to see you there!
I was scrolling through the ‘Gram and came across this post and felt it was necessary to share this quick word of encouragement.
Now I’ll be the first to say that being single isn’t always “easy,” however, neither is being connected to the wrong person. For that cause – when it comes to love and matters of my heart – I’m taking my time because I wholeheartedly believe that true love will find me one day. I mean, how upsetting would it be to let my future dude down by settling?
When will he show up?
I have no idea…but I’ll be low key glad…then I won’t have to answer the #1 question “Why are you single?” again *insert chuckle*
Here are 5 points I want to leave you with pertaining to your season of singleness (but could also be used for any aspect of your life actually)…
Live life and walk boldly in your purpose.
Know your worth and don’t allow anyone to sweet talk you into giving discounts.
Know the difference between the one who tells you they want you versus the one who actively pursues you.
If he/she reminds you of the past, RUN!
Trust God through the process because your obedience will pay off
By the way, if you’re looking for more inspiration check out the video below:
My precious singles, that’s all I have for today. In the meantime, I want to leave a question for you: What is one thing you love about being single?
Thanks for stopping by and feel free to send me some questions you want me to answer or topics you’d like me to discuss. My email address is email@example.com. I’d love to read your comments.
1 week agoby iamnijahjAs I said before, 1)check that FRUIT before you catch FEELINGS uhkay??!! 2) We MUST guard our anointing. If he/she is tryna lead you out of the will of God (I DON'T CARE WHAT POSITION THEY HAVE, HOW MUCH MONEY THEY HAVE, HOW MUCH THEY CLAIM TO LOVE THE LORD ETC), then you gotta shut the door on that or else you will ALWAYS come out on the losing end...and I'm not doing those kinds of relationships anymore. #pointblankperioT#repost@whateverywomanneedstoknow
4 days agoby iamnijahjYaaaaay for this 1 MONTH ANNIVERSARY of @lovenotesuntilwemeet !!! Be sure to check out all my previous posts, the backstory on how it all began and also stay tuned for future content. It's all about LOVE...letters, poems and prayers to future bae uhkay??!! PS, Although I haven't met him YET, I know he's out there being great and preparing to meet me as I'm being great and preparing to meet him. Hence... #lovenotesuntilwemeet ❤
7 hours agoby iamnijahjSiiiis, here dis message uhkay??!! And FELLAS too, make sure you and ole girl are spiritually connected FIRST. Because uhh as for me and this house, I'ain finna let nobody put this flame out. It was dull for a long time, but ya gurl caught on fire for Jesus!! #repost@rae_thechristian_princess
4 days agoby iamnijahjThis is your Monday morning reminder that YOU ARE WORTH IT! If errbody and they're daddies/mommas/cousins etc got access to "it" then chaal let'em have it. Especially for us singles, we do NOT have to share or beg for anything. You are the apple of God's eye so we ought to carry ourselves as such. That being said, you have to ask yourself, "Is what they're giving all they have to give or is that all they want to give you?" Lastly, make your decision based on the facts/current situation (what it is) and not solely your emotions/feelings. #repost@pastoreghe_kennedy
5 days agoby iamnijahj[Moment of Transparency] Cocky? NOPE Conceited? NOPE Confident? YOU GOT IT! It took me yeeeears, more like decades if I'm being honest, to get to this place and will not allow anyone/thing to move me. To give you a little insight, I've always been chubby but I didn't know that I was chubby until a small framed adult pointed it out and made it a point to do it every time she saw me. I realize now that the enemy used her to sow seeds of low esteem into my life. So yes, for years I suffered because she would
1 week agoby iamnijahjTruth.com.org.net etc...the beauty of REJECTION/HEARTBREAK/BETRAYAL is that it teaches you to depend on God like frfr... Yep it hurt, but years later I can see the growth and maturity in myself...and most importantly I've learned (and still learning) to depend on God and God alone uhkay??!! So yes, pain def has a purpose. Just allow the Lord have His perfect way and to take you through the process. #repost@realloveoverlust
1 week agoby iamnijahjChaaal Charlie is even standing on the Word! I got a saved cat yall lol! Seriously though, everyday he either sits/stands on my bible or notebook while I'm either reading or writing.