Yall know I couldn’t mention that line and not think of Aaliyah right??!! Anyway, it’s been a whole 7 months since since we last talked. I know I know (shame on me) but although I’ve been kinda quiet on here, I’ve been active on my IG and YouTube.
Hopefully the announcement that I’m about to make will get me back in your graces. So here we go…now yall know usually I’m helping others on their events by vlogging and promoting, but this time I AM HOSTING MY VERY OWN!! It’s been a few years in the making, starting with being led by God to speak more boldly about my singleness and things I have learned while on this journey. First, healing had to take place and then I had to gain some courage and confidence in this season of singleness – especially in a world where the idea of waiting on the Lord to bless you in your love life is seen as a joke. But yall, I’m living that blessed life to the max and decided to gather some single men and women together so that we can chat and chew uhkay??!!
The date is set for Saturday, February 16, 2019 at the beautiful Tabula Rasa Art Gallery in Rahway, New Jersey. Tickets are available so be sure to snatch up one or two…and I hope to see you there!
I was scrolling through the ‘Gram and came across this post and felt it was necessary to share this quick word of encouragement.
Now I’ll be the first to say that being single isn’t always “easy,” however, neither is being connected to the wrong person. For that cause – when it comes to love and matters of my heart – I’m taking my time because I wholeheartedly believe that true love will find me one day. I mean, how upsetting would it be to let my future dude down by settling?
When will he show up?
I have no idea…but I’ll be low key glad…then I won’t have to answer the #1 question “Why are you single?” again *insert chuckle*
Here are 5 points I want to leave you with pertaining to your season of singleness (but could also be used for any aspect of your life actually)…
Live life and walk boldly in your purpose.
Know your worth and don’t allow anyone to sweet talk you into giving discounts.
Know the difference between the one who tells you they want you versus the one who actively pursues you.
If he/she reminds you of the past, RUN!
Trust God through the process because your obedience will pay off
By the way, if you’re looking for more inspiration check out the video below:
My precious singles, that’s all I have for today. In the meantime, I want to leave a question for you: What is one thing you love about being single?
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4 days agoby iamnijahjSomeone asked me how I was doing today and I said I'm not feeling my best because I'm coming down with a cold. So he said, well get some rest tonite and make sure your man rub your back and ya feet. I chuckled, then held up a bare ring finger. Needless to say that conversation was redirected lol... I'll pass on the back, feet rubs and anything else physical unless those hands belong to my husband uhkay??!! It's "funny" how you become less attractive to folks once they find out you're not giving out samples... but the devil is
7 days agoby iamnijahjIt's "easy" to talk about waiting on the Lord and guarding your heart when you have prospects...but when you're really really single and learning to be content in this season, you will not and cannot settle for being half loved or simple thrown scraps. Besides them scraps they offering ain't even a whole meal - issa lil bit of this and a lil bit of that. And I'm worth more than that and so are you. I get it. It's Friday night and you'd rather be boo'ed up like errbody else with a husbae or wifebae (lol) but that's not
7 days agoby iamnijahjPay attention to those actions because they tell a lot. That's why I say, "Sounds good, now prove it." If a person has good intentions their words and actions will be cohesive, otherwise it'll always be a big ball of confusion...and uhh #aintnobodygottimeforthat#repost@rashadbilal
4 days agoby iamnijahjI'm thankful for the early morning call I got from my big bro @thomaslavone It was very encouraging and a reminder to keep on pressing in spite of the odds. Plus with faith, you can not lean on your own understanding. Instead you gotta trust that the Lord is behind the scenes working things out on your behalf...by the same token, we must activate our faith and apply those works uhkay??!! Faith can't work unless we do. #repost@loveladyrenee
19 hours agoby iamnijahjUhkay??!! Be about yo own business and not meddle/be concerned with the affairs of others.
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